As I grew older many things that came up to my mind. How life has so much more the unexpected things than what we expected. There's so much things happen lately.
I've been trying to wrote about this topic for a long time. Seriously. Not that I felt heartbroken though. It's just a topic. Let me start with a girl. Basically things like this is such a big problem to a girl. Let me do that again, BIG problem. As we all knew that boys doesn't care too much about heart. Ouh well, at least they don't cry for the rest of the week after their heart being broke. At least they're trying to find distraction. But girls, no matter how much distraction they would find, once they've done with it, it's always about the boy they would think of.
Come to think about this, every girl (I'm pretty sure about this) in this world, if she loves a boy, she would find so many excuses blaming herself if a boy dump her or cheated on her or starting to ignore her, etc. Ouh well, girls. If the heart isn't tired, she wouldn't stop trying. Believe me. I knew.
Forget about the girl. Let's talk about people around her. On second thought, if the girl is heartbroken, at this moment, people around her would say anything just to cheer her up, just to make her laugh, just to distract her. But, careful with your words, dude! By saying things like "Chill babe, you'd always used to be heartbroken, he's nothing compares to what you've been through". Please dude. It won't help. I think that is so rude you know. No matter how many boys she's been through the feeling doesn't always been the same. Or maybe she's barely forgot how does it feels to be heartbroken or ever thought of how she felt heartbroken.
Let's start from scratch. A girl named Alice, falls in love with Jacob, they've been together, suddenly Jacob dumped her. Alice is heart broken. After she's been through with broken hearted, she found Alex. Alex made her in love again. He made her forget how she used to feel when she's with Jacob back then. One fine day, Alex cheated her with other girl. Again, her heart has been broken. So she calls her friend, telling them how upset she feels. How broken she'd be. End up her friends told her, "You've been heart broken before, why are you so sad?"
Get what I meant? How does she feels when she doesn't has a strength to build up her soul and you said things to her? What if this happens to you? Will you laugh? Alice, the girl who had totally forget how does it feels when she's with Jacob, turns up to be heart broken by Alex and yet, her friends that suppose to support her said those craps to her? What happen to this world? Like seriously? Why do we had to be so cruel to each other?
This girl, she falls into pieces. All she could see is her heart is falling onto the ground break into pieces when things happen. When she turns to her friends to help her gaining back her strength to pick up all the pieces, all she could see that they crush her heart with their feet.
Please. I bet you wouldn't want to feels the same if the situation goes back to you.
To those who feels like Alice;
This is for you.
In hoping you always have a strength to pick up the pieces.